Wednesday, October 29, 2008

The post that shouldnt have been

I know a couple of people like that. Who dont like celebrating days - the day she was born, the day we met, the day Ram killed Ravan, the day Jesus came back... who believe that celebrating something on a designated day actually takes away from the occasion. Celebrations should be spontaneous, they say (or i imagine they do, havent really asked), not turned on and off by the calendar.

I couldnt understand why they analyzed so much. After all, how often would you spontaneously go through the bother of making 10 different kinds of sweets or treat 15 people to dinner? Punctuation marks inn what would otherwise be a really long sentence.
(How do you say did you see that? did you see that?did you see how clever i was? without actually saying it?)

Until of course, i caught the same disease. A milder strain, to be sure, but the disease is the same. I dont like mass distributed happy messages. Okay, maybe i dont dislike them, but I do think they are quite meaningless. All they really say is that you are in the sender's address book. (okay, i admit there is a corner of my heart (that i would like to disown) which is glad of even that). Its almost as impersonal as Airtel wishing you a Happy And Prosperous New Year!

Given that half of the people who currently read this blog actually sent out Happy Diwali messages, i wonder why i even wrote this. I mean, given a choice between being nice and being honest, i pick nice. Always. Its so well established in certain circles that people have stopped asking for my opinion on the new cupboard they have bought. Not that that is such a bad thing, me not being a particularly interested or competent authority on cupboards anyway.

Who knew blogging could bring out the nasty in me!

3 comments:

Unknown said...

hmm...celebrations are just...means of having mithai :D...meeting relatives...friends...
sometimes..it is like...a formality...sending out 'happy whateva' wishes...bt wen u recv one...it feels nice...so y think abt the senders true intentions..:) feel happy feel nice...tats wat I do..:D

Unknown said...

exactly how i feel vin. imagine adding almost anyone to your orkut coz that increases the magical number, and then sending all these a "heartfelt" wish for a prosperous new year ahead!!!!

vinaya said...

Zaru: Yes, yes, bring on the mithai!

The Puris: I know!! Given that the scrap count is another magical number, maybe they look upon it as some sort of public service? A way to spread joy and cheer?

 
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